i talked with a friend saturday 
{when i wasn’t watching conference}
and he commented that conference is far more interesting 
when we didn’t have life together yet… 
{i.e when he wasn’t in love and about to get married.}

i do remember being single and feeling a stronger need for answers when i felt so lost and my future was unplanned and made me nervous just thinking about it…

sometimes they come at me like a fog horn in broad daylight and force me to realize its time to make a change. 
this happens about every six months at least, and often in between.

i know i am not alone in this feeling. 
and the worst part is, 
i know it, because i do it. 

he quoted a bumper sticker he saw, 
“don’t judge me because i sin differently than you!”

its hard to live in a world where we don’t communicate like normal people 
with most people we communicate with. 
we share everything with strangers,
and that can sometimes do more harm than good.

the rest of Uchtdorf’s talk was about being disciples and loving like the savior, 
who does not judge, who forgives, and who forgets. 
and that while we are forgiving, to forgive ourselves.